Here is a really great article from our friends at Share Save Spend. Timely and sage advice we think. Share with your congregation!
From http://www.sharesavespend.com/newsletter.aspx
Can you name one holiday gift you received last year?If you are like most, it might stump you for a while. Often times the gifts we do remember are those that are something special; gifts someone made for us or gave in our honor, like a charitable donation. It’s really quite amazing when you think about it. We scramble from the day after Thanksgiving (Black Friday) to some time in late December to purchase a bunch of stuff for people who may not even remember what we gave them. I don’t want to be a downer, but that’s a lot of stress, money and running-around for a forgotten memory.
My point in raising the issue is not to discourage you from buying gifts this holiday season. Rather it’s to step-back and think about the things you do buy (or make) for people and how your values and their interests are reflected in those decisions. Gift-giving should be joyful not obligatory, but that’s often what happens because we don’t plan ahead and really think it through.
My friend Shelly takes great joy in buying gifts for people. Whether it’s a close family member or a friend, she is extremely thoughtful about the whole process. She starts early in the year by planning ahead and making note of the following: who she is buying for, what their interests are, how the gift might add joy to their life and where she might buy the gift (she loves antique shows and thrift-stores because it fits with her reuse and recycle mentality). She also sets a strict not-to-exceed budget and never, ever goes into debt to buy gifts. And unlike most of us, she completes her gift purchasing well ahead of the holidays. Suffice it to say last-minute impulse shopping is not in her vocabulary.
Best of all, Shelly derives great joy from giving gifts to others. I know because I’ve seen her in action. She’s as excited about the person opening the gift as the person who’s actually opening the gift. It’s really quite amazing. But as I watch her in action it reminds me how truly joyful gift-giving can be. And let me tell you, people remember Shelly’s gifts.
A wise person once said, “Bad habits are developed when times are good and good habits are developed when times are bad.” Given all that is happening in the economy these days, it’s a great time for all of us to rethink our gift-giving habits to see if they pass the “Shelly test.”
One Share Save Spend Idea:
In my lifetime I have never experienced the economic challenges that we facing right now. At Share Save Spend, our goal is to help youth and adults ‘think about, talk about and do money’ in ways that honor their values. To help you in this effort, we are offering a first-ever 15% discount on all of our Share Save Spend tools and resources through the end of 2008. It is our way of saying thank you for supporting our work. To receive the discount, type in Holiday08 in the coupon code during the check out.
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How can you infuse Shelly’s joy and intentionality for gift-giving into your holiday routine?
Gotta Have It Now WOW!
In 2007, American individuals and families gave more than $220 billion to charitable causes around the world.







